North Rim Photography

The Family Photo Session Playbook

How to get amazing family photos without losing your mind. Even with toddlers. Even with teenagers. Even with the dog.

By Joel Jauregui | Hundreds of family sessions photographed

Let Me Guess...

It's 4:30 PM on a Saturday. You've spent an hour getting everyone dressed. Your oldest changed three times. Your toddler already has mystery stains on their white shirt. Someone is crying because they can't find their shoes. Your partner is asking if they really need to tuck in their shirt.

And you're standing in the bathroom wondering why you thought matching outfits were a good idea.

This guide fixes all of that. Before it happens.

What's Inside

Scheduling Smart

Best time of day, best season, how far in advance to book, and why golden hour is non negotiable. Plus nap time strategy for toddlers.

Outfits Without Drama

The coordinate, don't match rule. How to build a family color palette in 4 steps. Tips for mom, dad, kids, babies, and yes, the dog.

Preparing Your Kids

Age specific strategies for toddlers (1 to 3), young kids (4 to 8), and tweens/teens. What works, what backfires, and how to handle meltdowns.

Pets Are Family Too

How to include the dog without chaos. Exercise first, high value treats, bring a handler, and why pet shots go first.

During the Session

What a 45 to 75 minute session actually looks like. How to get real smiles (hint: never say cheese), and what happens when things go sideways.

After Your Session

Timeline for getting photos back, printing recommendations, gallery wall ideas, social media sharing tips, and why annual sessions are worth it.

Sample Color Palettes Included

Warm Neutrals

Works in literally every season and location

Cool Tones

Clean, classic, timeless

Earth Tones

Peak fall vibes

Bold and Modern

Striking and fashion forward

Kid Prep by Age

Toddlers (1 to 3)

You cannot control them. You can only create conditions where good moments happen. Nap first, snacks second, let them explore third. Posed smiles from a 2 year old look forced. Movement and discovery look magical.

Young Kids (4 to 8)

The sweet spot. Old enough to follow directions, young enough to be silly. Make it a game, give them a job, and promise ice cream after. Works every single time.

Tweens and Teens (9+)

Self conscious and too cool for photos. Involve them in outfit planning, give them individual shots, use humor, and remove all pressure. The less you push, the better the photos.

FAQ

My kids never cooperate for photos. Will this help?

That's exactly why this exists. The guide has age specific strategies that work with how kids actually behave, not how we wish they would.

We have a baby, a toddler, AND a teenager. Is this for us?

Especially for you. Separate sections cover each age group with specific tactics. Plus a pre session pep talk to read the morning of.

Can I bring our dog?

Absolutely. There's a full section on pet prep: exercise first, high value treats, bring a handler, and do pet photos first while energy is high.

Do I need to be a Joel client?

Nope. This works with any photographer. It's universal prep advice from someone who has done hundreds of family sessions.

Amazing Family Photos Start Before the Camera Comes Out

For $9, you'll know exactly what to wear, how to prep the kids, and what to expect so you can actually enjoy being in front of the camera with the people you love most.

Instant download. PDF format. Keep forever.